Commandments for Marital Success - E-book - ePub

Biographie de Hellene Paredes

This work is dedicated to everyone who seeks to improve the quality of their affective relationships, whether in new partnerships, maintenance or reconstruction of existing relationships. I am Hellene Paredes, specialized in couples therapy, and I share valuable knowledge, not only academically, but, mainly, of practical achievements, extracted from day to day, and added along a trajectory full of challenges and learning.
I started my journey in 1976, getting married at the age of 28. After the first few years, I found myself with marital conflicts that led to separations (actually two separations). After earning a degree in psychology and earning a doctorate in relationship therapy, my third marriage brought wisdom and stability; This marital stability was achieved by learning from previous mistakes, in addition to what I had learned in college and, in a very decisive way, with what I learned from the daily work of the profession of marital therapist.
This way I achieved a deep understanding of relationship dynamics. I learned that self-awareness is crucial for healthy relationships, allowing you to understand your own emotions and reactions. With this base, we develop emotional self-control, face challenges constructively and cultivate virtues for a harmonious coexistence. I also learned the mechanics behind healthy relationships: Communication, empathy, respect and goodwill between marital peers.
Throughout my career, I have operated globally (North America, Europe, Asia and South America), realizing that human needs are universal. The pursuit of happiness and lasting relationships transcends cultural boundaries. I learned, in practice, that most breakups can be avoided, and I want to share this very important knowledge. Information is a powerful resource for preventing heartbreak. Learning that adequate preparation can avoid problems and disappointments.
My mission is to provide guidance, allowing people to build strong relationships, motivated by self-awareness, mutual knowledge, effective communication, respect between the parties and the firm decision to make it work.