When love becomes a game, everybody loses. In " The Real Rules ", Barbara De Angelis offers new rules for women who don't want a relationship based on lies and manipulation. " The Real Rules " are not about trying to be what a man wants so he'll mainly you. They're not about fear - fear of being alone, fear of 'blowing' a relationship with one wrong move. " The Real Rules " are about becoming the confident, unique woman you really are and finding a man who loves you because of it. With " The Real Rules " you will learn : How to stop sabotaging your love life with the 'old' rules. The six most important character traits to look for in a man. What men really want in a woman (and in the bedroom). When and how to ask a man for commitment. How to avoid the wrong men and attract the right ones.