Love Needs A System

Love can bring two people together.  It cannot, by itself, run a household.  Two people can love each other deeply and still fight over money, chores, children, intimacy, family access, phones, careers, caregiving, power, and expectations they never knew they had.  The problem is not always a lack of love. Sometimes the problem is that nobody ever designed the system supporting the love. In love needs a system, Lucius Alston moves beyond ordinary relationship advice and introduces the Alston relationship operating system:  eight practical systems every serioiuys couple must learn to design, vision, faith, money, home, intimacy, conflict, family, and legacy.
 This is not simply a book to read.  It is a marriage operating manual.