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New, updated version 2021. Therapist and Certified Relationship coach Dr. Lyn Kelley gives you the real lowdown on closed men. Rate your man on the "emotional unavailability scale." Why he shuts down emotionally, how to get him to open up, how to connect with him, how to create more intimacy, and how to make him fall deeply in love with you. She will help you understand his psyche, how to know if you should stay or leave.
Plus: The best 15 strategies to handle an emotionally unavailable man. Here's what you'll discover:Introduction:Definition of emotionally unavailableWhen you change, he changesWhether or not your relationship can endure has to do with these 10 thingsChapter One: Common Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable ManWhy is he so afraid?Signs of emotional unavailabilityChapter Two: What Causes Emotional Unavailability?Learned behaviorPassivityPassive resistance and passive aggressivenessWeak and helpless menPassiveness or weakness as a control strategyChapter Three: How Stunted Is He? A ContinuumValues vs abilityQuiet and reserved personality typeConflict avoidersSecretiveHot and coldIn another relationshipShiny ball syndromeAlcohol and addictionsControl, anger and hostilityChapter Four: Why We Are Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable MenHow EUM hook us inThe 4 reasons women choose EUMChapter Five: How You May Be a Cause of ItChange your perceptionWhy complaining doesn't workK.
I. S. S. (Keep It Short and Sweet)Chapter Six: How to Connect With an Emotionally Unavailable ManBest ways to get more intimacy15 Strategies proven to workChapter Seven: How to Know if You Should Stay or LeaveAre you in love with HIM or a FANTASY?You have the right to feel lovedSpeak in simple truthsWould couples therapy help?Chapter Eight: How to Break Up With an Emotionally Unavailable ManTalk and walkShould we just take a break?You deserve to be happyBibliography