Living with AIDS during the epidemic, Jari did what many do in crisis: he turned to God. But as a gay man, the Christian God he'd grown up with had already made clear he wasn't welcome. The church's answers felt hollow against the raw terror of dying-and whatever confidence he'd had in Christianity collapsed entirely. Studying the world's spiritual traditions, he discovered that Buddhism offered something Christianity hadn't: the actual promise of a stressless state-nirvana-reachable in this lifetime.
Not heaven after death, but freedom from fear and suffering now. That discovery changed everything. Desperate to escape the constant fear of death that gripped him, he threw himself into Zen practice and traveled to India to learn from a spiritual master. Ultimately he arrived at nonduality-the stressless state beyond identity, beyond fear, beyond the labels of a lifetime. But when a shadow appeared on a kidney scan, mysterious panic attacks struck without warning-the Dark Night of the Soul, the negative side of nonduality.
His ordeal was particularly brutal: he was navigating the Dark Night while simultaneously surviving AIDS. Every visit to the ER raised the same impossible question: Is this existential terror, or am I dying? As his health slowly recovered, so did the stressless state. If you've ever stood at the edge of your own mortality and found your faith had nothing left to offer-this book was written for you.
Not heaven after death, but freedom from fear and suffering now. That discovery changed everything. Desperate to escape the constant fear of death that gripped him, he threw himself into Zen practice and traveled to India to learn from a spiritual master. Ultimately he arrived at nonduality-the stressless state beyond identity, beyond fear, beyond the labels of a lifetime. But when a shadow appeared on a kidney scan, mysterious panic attacks struck without warning-the Dark Night of the Soul, the negative side of nonduality.
His ordeal was particularly brutal: he was navigating the Dark Night while simultaneously surviving AIDS. Every visit to the ER raised the same impossible question: Is this existential terror, or am I dying? As his health slowly recovered, so did the stressless state. If you've ever stood at the edge of your own mortality and found your faith had nothing left to offer-this book was written for you.