ADHD and Marriage - E-book - ePub

Despite being born in unfortunate circumstances and experiencing much suffering, I have entered into a wonderful marriage. In this world, many children shed tears due to their parents' actions. However, even if one grows up in difficult circumstances, it is still possible to have a successful marriage and enjoy a heavenly-like family. I would like to share the process of how I created a happy home.
There are many blissful families in this world, and I hope all women and children can experience peace and contentment.  Love, money, and marriageI got married in November at the age of 33, and it makes me wonder if there is anything as important in one's life as marriage. There's a saying that goes, "Behind a successful man, there's a woman, " implying that women are greatly influenced by their husbands.
Similarly, husbands are also influenced by their wives. Nowadays, many people choose not to get married, and there are also many who are unable to do so. Divorce rates are high, and family structures have become more diverse. Jesus said that your enemies can be within your own family. It's a challenging time to witness happy marriages. We are living in an era where people use the name of love to treat each other as enemies.
Writer Gomisook described nuclear families as a failed system that doesn't fit the current situation. Her words resonate. Raising one child requires an entire village, she said. However, when a mother becomes too attached to raising a child on her own, she can become exhausted and experience alienation. The nuclear family structure itself seems to be a type of household designed to lead capitalist societies, where much alienation occurs within it.
The husband earns money, and in return, the wife bears and raises the child while managing the household. This transactional nature turns love into something monetary, and within this structure, it might be difficult to find genuine love. Consequently, children may experience a lack of affection even with their mother's devoted care, leading to conditions like ADHD and depression.?There is a short story by Lawrence called " The Rocking-Horse Winner." The mother married for love, but love turned out to be ephemeral.
She had three children, and both she and the children knew that the mother did not love them. She confirms this fact with her gaze. The look in her eyes speaks an undeniable truth. She was a person who had lost the ability to love others. Unconsciously, she knows this well, so she pretends excessively. Pretends to love the children. The children are aware of it. They know it's an act. In that household, no one says anything, but there is a sound that can be heard.
"There will be more money" "There will be more money." The couple with extravagant tastes had many expenses despite a meager income. The children hear the sound, just like we breathe, but no one acknowledges it, just as no one says that there's a corpse in the closet of any household. The family secret was just that. The mother is a woman obsessed with money, and the son, unconsciously influenced by his mother, acquires the skill of recalling the name of the horse that won first place at the horse races while riding the rocking horse to please his mother in a trance-like state.
And he overexerts himself and dies, leaving behind a fortune of 80, 000 pounds. The mother gains money but loses her son.?