A Guide to Getting Your Ex Back - E-book - ePub

So you've broken up with your significant other and now you want to get him/ her back. Maybe you've only just broken up, or maybe it's been some time now since you broke up. What matters is not when you broke up but what you are thinking of doing about it. It doesn't even matter if you are the person who initiated the break up or not. At this point in time, nothing else matters except the fact that you have decided that you want to get your ex back.
The reason this book exists is for no other cause than the fact that I know exactly what you're going through, and have been down that road a few times myself. Having unsuccessfully listened to other people's advice on what I should do with my relationships, I finally decided to follow my own head and heart. This worked for me, and I am now in a stable relationship, three years running after my breakup, two years running before that!My methods won't necessarily work for everyone, and seriously looking at things, not everyone was meant to get back together with their ex.
Sometimes things happen for a reason and this is true of breaking up as well. I wrote this book not because I think of myself as a guru, or a qualified expert on relationships or anything like that. Indeed I'm far from that. The only thing going in my favor is that my relationship has been going strong for some time now, and this I believe is due entirely to my following a few basic principles, which I began following after I broke up with my present partner - and which I used to win that person back.
However, the reason I wrote this book, was for the simple reason that I was asked to do so by a good friend who wishes to remain anonymous. This friend, having been with me when I broke up with, then got back together again with my partner, knew what I had been through and knew what I had done to get my relationship in working order again. Having at time been going through some troubles herself in her own relationship of some time, my friend decided to try some of the tactics which I had so successfully utilized, and to good effect.
So although this book started out as a means to pacify her nagging me to put everything down in writing, I now find myself hoping that this book will be able to help others like us who were having trouble in our relationships, or who have already been put through the wringer of breaking up.