Ness Heckscher

Long Description:'Four words that strike fear into the heart of every woman whose partner is approaching retirement: "You are my hobby."If someone who loves you put this book in your hands, they're trying to tell you something. If you picked it up yourself because something's not quite right, good. That's the first smart move you've made. Retired and Underfoot is the honest, practical guide to not becoming the husband who drives his wife crazy.
It's not about becoming someone you're not. It's about building a life that's worth living and a relationship that survives you being home all day. Inside you'll discover why retirement hits men harder than they expect, what Retired Husband Syndrome actually looks like and why she's not making it up, how to find purpose, hobbies and mates outside your relationship, what she needs you to understand about her space, her time and her sanity, how to have the conversation that could save your marriage, and a 90-day plan to build a retirement that works for both of you.
Your partner has a plan. It's time you got one too.