Adriane Brignol

The Village MethodT: Peer Conflict Resolution Toolkit is a practical, evidence-based social-emotional learning (SEL) resource designed to help elementary students build essential communication, empathy, and problem-solving skills. Grounded in research from SEL frameworks, restorative practices, and child development, this ready-to-use toolkit provides educators, parents, and home-school providers with a structured system for teaching children how to manage peer conflict in a respectful and effective way.
At the core is a simple five-step process:Pause. Tell. Understand. Solve. Repair & Reinforce. This framework helps children: Develop self-awareness and emotional regulation Communicate feelings clearly using respectful language Build empathy and perspective-taking skills Collaborate on fair, practical solutions Repair relationships and strengthen peer connections Unlike traditional discipline models, The Village MethodT emphasizes restorative practices, shifting from punishment to understanding, accountability, and relationship-building.
A key feature is the school-to-home reinforcement loop, helping children practice the same conflict resolution skills in both classroom and home environments-improving retention and real-world application. Includes: Student-friendly conflict resolution framework Classroom posters and visual supports Worksheets for reflection, empathy, and solution-building Real-life scenarios and guided practice Parent reinforcement tools for home use Teacher scripts and quick-reference guides Ideal for: elementary classrooms (Grades 2-5), SEL programs, school counselors, behavior intervention support, homeschool families, and youth organizations.
Benefits: Improves peer communication and conflict resolution Supports emotional regulation and empathy development Reduces behavior disruptions Strengthens classroom culture and relationships