Tracie Joy

Real love starts with you. Stop settling-and start becoming the partner you've been looking for.  Stop Swiping, Start LivingFinding lasting love in today's world can feel overwhelming-but it doesn't have to be. Whether you're re-entering the dating scene, navigating relationships after 40, or simply tired of confusing situationships and shallow connections,  Stop Swiping, Start Living offers a compassionate, grounded path to finding love without losing yourself.
This empowering guide blends soulful wisdom with practical strategies to help you: Build self-worth and emotional resilience before dating Define what real compatibility looks like for you Navigate rejection, online dating, and first dates with grace Spot red flags-and recognize green ones Express yourself with confidence and authenticity Create a clear, intentional vision for the love you truly deserve Packed with journaling prompts, affirmations, conversation starters, and gentle encouragement, this book meets you exactly where you are-and helps you grow from there.
More than just dating advice, it's a self-discovery journey rooted in healing, clarity, and emotional safety. Whether you're 25 or 55, single or starting over, Soulmate, But Make It Real reminds you of this truth: you are already whole. Real love begins with becoming yourself-and inviting someone who sees, honors, and grows with you.